The rat race ....

How often has this feeling come to you that you are a part of a big rat race? Unconsciously we know this until a day comes when light hits our face and says 'Happy Realisation' ...

Right since childhood we all become a part of this rat race ... a race for success, a race for money, a race where we want to prove ourselves that we are better than others. So rightly has someone said: - "If you are first, you are first. If you are second you are nothing" ..and everybody wants to be first. I have been a part of this race ever since I knew it existed (again consciously or unconsciously .. i was always a part of it). Probably some might say I beckoned it for them for a small part of my life as well. However, the recent turn of events have made me think about my being a part of it... suddenly my soul ask's me if it does really matter whether or not I am a part of this race, whether or not I shall win at the end of it and most importantly what shall I make out of it....

Why are we all in this race? to be successful, to earn a better living, to survive and may be even to satisfy ourselves on the goal of our existence. Success unfortunately is a really vague term...I have never read a proper definition of success in my life. My idea of success has always been more money and power. Does being successful mean being happy? I dont know. What I have found out recently is that in this rat race there is a huge 'Unknown' factor. The unknown is not controlable by any individual; however is an impact of collective action on different individuals at different times. Lemme elucidate it simply ... one of my friend goes to Harvard; gets out of it and gets a high paying job and then I go to Harvard a year after he left and when I am about to be placed, the financial market collapse leaving me with no job at all. The unknown here is "luck"...its not me who is responsible for it .... its an impact of a collective wisdom which has been imposed on me...

I have realised that there is no single yardstick of measuring success except for the fact that you should be happy in whatever you do and wherever you are. We cant compare two individuals for success for each one has a different path.

I dont mean to say that a person should not have goals or be unwilling to take up responsibility. Working towards your goals is always for you to decide, however the result of it is always a matter of destiny. Fortune always favors the brave, so take as many chances as you can .. just dont be sad if one of them doesnt come off well.... there are 'n' number of paths and if you cant walk one you would surely walk the other..

I have decided I am still gonna a part of this rat race ... however, will not let other's decide if I have won it or not, I will run it without a destination in mind - for I dont really know where I am headed, I will rather find a key to happiness in whatever I do for it is all that matters :-)