Beta shaadi karlo ....

Dedicated to all my "married" friends - who offlate have been buggers!! ;-)

9 out of 10 pings on Gtalk, 5 out of 10 on FB and every phone call back home to my lovely mom - asks me the same question nowadays!

"Tu shaadi kab kar raha hai??!!" - "Kab, Kisse, Kahaan, Kyun" - "tu gay toh nahi ban gaya" - "Ladki kaun hai, ab toh bata de" ...

Phew, honestly, I wish I had an answer to any of it (except the 3rd one - NO)! par answer nahi hai - there not even a guesstimate on any of it. Ladki kaun hai toh dur, ab tak ladki ko dekha bhi nahi hai ... aur shaadi ko abhi saari umaar padi hai.

But I have a question, y do you "married" friends talk or ask abt getting married?? ;-) I think it comes out of sheer frustration of being married and living with a feeling of being grounded - while a single friend like "HP" is having all the fun in the world dancing to WACKO music and meat around him! Saalo dost ki khushi dekhi nahi jaati tumse!

It is a big misconception that one can't be happy being single. You can go anywhere you want, do anything you want, go home at any time you want and there is no constant phone call/message - asking "Kyan cho?"... LOL ... You can party your way to glory ... you can dance with multiple partners (because this is a public blog I'll stop there) ... you are allowed to keep your room in a state of mess ... infact the entire house in a mess .. (if my room or house is not a mess, I won't be able to find most of my things) ... kabhi bhi khaana kha sakte ho ... you can get up any time in the morning .... you may choose not to bathe entire sunday (or even brush for that matter). Kya chahiye aur life mei! ...

Freedom is always better than a golden cage afterall !! ... so the next time you guys ping me, I hope v'll be discussing about good things in life - your's and mine! We all know within our hearts who is more happy, so stop asking or pushing me into it. I am not spilling the beans here cuz I know all my "Bhabhiji's" will read this post as well and I sincerely don't wanna waste ur Sunday! ... ha ha...